There are tons of new words to learn when becoming religious, and often, even when we are already using them we might not sure what they totally mean. Use this guide so you never feel lost again. Are we missing something? Comment here and we’ll add it!

One important note, in Ashkenazi circles, the Yiddish version of the word is often used, which has an “s” at the end. (I.e. Shabbos vs. Shabbat). Here, we’re using the Hebrew or Sephardi versions of each word that falls into that category.

achrayut: responsibility

baalei teshuva: returnees to Judaism

bashert: soulmate

bechira: free will

brachot: blessings

chametz: bread products

chareidi: strictly Torah-observant Jews

chesed: acts of loving kindness

chizuk: strength or encouragement

chumrot: religious stringencies

chutzpadik: brazen

emunah: faith

frum: religiously observant

gashmiyut: materialism

gemach: free loan association

hakarat hatov: gratitude

halacha: Jewish law

hashgacha pratis: Divine providence

hishtadlut: effort

kallah: bride

kiruv: outreach

lashon hara: gossip

mashal: parable

middot: character traits

mikvah: ritual bath

parasha: weekly Torah portion

pareve: not meat or dairy; neutral

sedarim: scheduled learning sessions

shalom bayit: peace in the home

she’eilot: questions

sheitel: wig

sheitel macher: someone who styles wigs

shidduch: match

shomer negia: refraining from touching the other gender

tovel: to immerse dishes in a mikvah before use

tzanua: modest

tzniut: modesty

Yiddishkeit: Judaism